I have wonderful friends who suggest good things for me to do.

They say, there’s a movie you should see.

I probably should.

But I probably won’t.

They say, there’s a restaurant you should try.

I probably should.

But I probably won’t.

They say, I’ve read a book. You should read it.

I probably should.

But I probably won’t.

They say, there’s a YouTube video you should watch.

I probably should.

But I probably won’t.

They say, there’s a wine you should taste.

I probably should.

But I probably won’t.

They say, there’s a country you should explore.

I probably should.

But I probably won’t.

They say, there’s a lesson you should learn from this poem of yours.

       I think I’m learning that lesson right now.

Sometimes one must say ‘no’ to a few good things

for the sake of the autonomous self.